Work-Life Balance: Is
it possible to have it all?
As I begin
the dreaded process of applying for residency, I have been deeply thinking
about what my priorities are in life. In addition to applications, I am also in
the midst of planning my wedding for the spring. Of course I want to have a great
learning experience in residency and a successful medical career, but I would
also like to be able to start a family. Is it possible for female physicians to
have an amazing career and family – can we have it all?
This is a
common problem faced by many women in the healthcare field. As the number of
female physicians continues to rise, the challenges that women physicians face
in trying to maintain this balance has come to light. The work-life balance is
a significant factor in which specialty a woman chooses. There are many
specialties where women are underrepresented, especially in the surgical fields
and in the academic setting, likely related to difficulty to find balance in
these demanding careers.1 The timing of pregnancy is also a major
decision for women. Many factors contribute to this decision, including the
program’s policies on maternity leave, the availability of childcare, and even
whether the new mom would have a private place to pump breast milk at work in
order to continue breastfeeding. One issue with pregnancy during residency is
that there is a potential for resentment among co-residents, as
physician-mothers may be seen as having special treatment.1 However,
this also needs to be balanced against the a physician-mother’s guilt of
leaving her infant at home or daycare as she returns to work. Unfortunately,
female physicians who desire starting a family continue to face these (and many
other) challenges when entering residency in the medical field.
In order to
make this balance more feasible for women, it would be beneficial for more
programs to establish accommodating practices that allow female physicians to
tackle the aforementioned challenges. Flexible hours and part-time work are
good options to allow women to have more time to manage childcare. Also, there
needs to be a decrease in stigmatization of women who decide to take time off
for parenting reasons, especially in the surgical fields. It would also be
helpful to many mothers if more hospitals provided childcare during working
hours. This would allow physicians (and all other healthcare workers) to
continue to work and still be nearby to their young children.
As for me,
I hope to find a happy balance between my roles as a physician, wife, and
mother in the future. I know it will take a lot of sacrifice to juggle a
clinical and academic career with motherhood, but with some flexibility, a lot
of hard work, and establishing priorities, you can accomplish everything that
is important to you.
Reference:
1. Verlander, G. 2004. “Female physicians: Balancing career
and family.” Acad Psychiatry 28(4):331-6.