I
found it appalling that not only are institutions are raising the credentials
higher for women, but also that their marital status plays a huge role in the job
search. Why couldn’t these women have children and work at the same time? Why
was there no social support for women with children? And why is there a
nonexistent role for the father in child rearing?
This patriarchy reminded me of one my patients who made me
question my abilities as a future provider. During my prerounds, my patient inquired
if being doctor was the right decision for me. Instead, he could picture me as
a great housewife. I was initially speechless. Thankfully, his nurse defended
me, asking why I couldn’t be both? I answered his question by explaining to him
that I could not imagine myself staying at home. After leaving his room, my
feelings of inadequacy turned to annoyance and frustration. I didn’t know if his
comment stemmed from my skills or from his gender biases. My interaction with him made me wonder how
many other patients I would encounter during my career who have a similar
mindset.
Cindy
Kui
DUCOM 2019
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